shy_guy_3 Posted July 27, 2006 Author Share Posted July 27, 2006 i cant loose what i never had Link to comment
lilac_indi Posted July 27, 2006 Share Posted July 27, 2006 dont talk like that. we all have self respect. you may think that what you are doing now is right but you are gonna look back on this and cringe - ive been there. this is just gonna be an excuse for her NOT to be with you Link to comment
shy_guy_3 Posted July 27, 2006 Author Share Posted July 27, 2006 well if i push her away, what happens happens, she means to much to me for me to let it end like this..but i have to go, she asked me to call her at 9 am and thats in like 20 minutes, so im gonna go call her then..i honestly dont think she knows what she wants right now... Link to comment
lilac_indi Posted July 27, 2006 Share Posted July 27, 2006 i honestly dont think she knows what she wants right now... that is a red flag there. if you think you will gain anything by calling her then go for it. do whats right for you Link to comment
shy_guy_3 Posted July 27, 2006 Author Share Posted July 27, 2006 that is a red flag there. if you think you will gain anything by calling her then go for it. do whats right for you I called her, but she was asleep so i only talked to her for like 10 minutes, then i told her id talk to her sometime and told her to get some more sleep, she said she'll try to call me tonight, but i doubt she'll be able to since she is going home today and her dad's girlfriend dont let her use the phone much..but she did mention coming up to my house this weekend to stay for a couple days, and i figure why not, it'll give us a chance to work out our problems, im hoping.. Link to comment
lilac_indi Posted July 27, 2006 Share Posted July 27, 2006 well i hope it works out for you but keep your expectations low - dont want to end up hurting yourself Link to comment
shy_guy_3 Posted July 27, 2006 Author Share Posted July 27, 2006 yeah, thanks for talkin with me..i just really cant see myself without her Link to comment
Majoraslayer Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 It really hurts when you give your heart to a girl and do everything you can to make her happy, then its never enough. I'm REALLY sorry she's done this to you, man. After the trouble I can tell you've gone through to work hard for her happiness, you are vastly under-appreciated and you deserve a lot better than that. Link to comment
shy_guy_3 Posted July 28, 2006 Author Share Posted July 28, 2006 It really hurts when you give your heart to a girl and do everything you can to make her happy, then its never enough. I'm REALLY sorry she's done this to you, man. After the trouble I can tell you've gone through to work hard for her happiness, you are vastly under-appreciated and you deserve a lot better than that. i dont want anyone else.. Link to comment
celticghirl Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 hey shy guy... i know its hard to let go but i think its best that you do. i hate to say it but you are fighting a losing battle here and the only one who is gonna end up hurt is you. take some time out. go nc - its the best way to go for now. Link to comment
shy_guy_3 Posted July 28, 2006 Author Share Posted July 28, 2006 hey shy guy... i know its hard to let go but i think its best that you do. i hate to say it but you are fighting a losing battle here and the only one who is gonna end up hurt is you. take some time out. go nc - its the best way to go for now. yeah well i guess im over it, i sent out my enlistment papers for the marines today..i cant fall in love if im busy 24/7 Link to comment
shy_guy_3 Posted July 28, 2006 Author Share Posted July 28, 2006 go nc . whats nc????? Link to comment
celticghirl Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 nc means no contact. you are gonna join the marines?? is she the reason why? Link to comment
BurningInside Posted July 29, 2006 Share Posted July 29, 2006 Damn I had a great reply to this thread lined up. I'm sorry to hear of the loss, but its her loss if you were this bothered to come on here and make sure it was going to be a great time for her. Link to comment
shy_guy_3 Posted July 29, 2006 Author Share Posted July 29, 2006 no she's not the ONLY reason im enlisting, ive wanted to be a sniper since i was 6 and then when i met her i decided not to, because i thought i wanted a family, but now I dont want a family..so im joining and seeing if I can become a Sniper, i figure since love kicked my A55 i should atleast try to follow the dream i put aside for love in the first place Link to comment
lilac_indi Posted July 29, 2006 Share Posted July 29, 2006 well whatever you decide to do, good luck with it and i hope you do get over her Link to comment
lilac_indi Posted July 30, 2006 Share Posted July 30, 2006 hey NDG...his gf split up with him. poor thing Link to comment
blackend heart Posted July 30, 2006 Share Posted July 30, 2006 i stupidly read the first page then replied, i know how he feels tho, i worked my * * * off trying to please my ex and all i got was the cold shoulder, but now i have found the right person. Shy Guy just dont give up, the memorys of her will remain for a while, but try to focus on things that you did before her or new things. Eventually you will find the right person, i believe that out there somewhere everyone has a soulmate its just a matter of finding them. So i hope you find someone soon, but dont beat yourself up, or even think how it could have gone differently, i did these things and it only made me feel worse about myself, Link to comment
lilac_indi Posted July 30, 2006 Share Posted July 30, 2006 i stupidly read the first page then replied, i know how he feels tho, i worked my * * * off trying to please my ex and all i got was the cold shoulder, but now i have found the right person. Shy Guy just dont give up, the memorys of her will remain for a while, but try to focus on things that you did before her or new things. Eventually you will find the right person, i believe that out there somewhere everyone has a soulmate its just a matter of finding them. So i hope you find someone soon, but dont beat yourself up, or even think how it could have gone differently, i did these things and it only made me feel worse about myself, nicely said Link to comment
shy_guy_3 Posted August 1, 2006 Author Share Posted August 1, 2006 i stupidly read the first page then replied, i know how he feels tho, i worked my * * * off trying to please my ex and all i got was the cold shoulder, but now i have found the right person. Shy Guy just dont give up, the memorys of her will remain for a while, but try to focus on things that you did before her or new things. Eventually you will find the right person, i believe that out there somewhere everyone has a soulmate its just a matter of finding them. So i hope you find someone soon, but dont beat yourself up, or even think how it could have gone differently, i did these things and it only made me feel worse about myself, yeah thanks Link to comment
spaggle Posted August 2, 2006 Share Posted August 2, 2006 sorry just read the whole thing, was giving advice but read, it but hey, when u realise there are others out ther, coem to us again, and we'll advise on the situation, chin up. spaggle xxx Link to comment
shy_guy_3 Posted August 3, 2006 Author Share Posted August 3, 2006 sucky part about this is, i know this girl that i kinda like, and she and everyone else knows i like her..she dont like me back XD i cant win with women =( Link to comment
lilac_indi Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 aww dont give up hope. there are plenty of girls out there who will love you for who you are! =) Link to comment
shy_guy_3 Posted August 11, 2006 Author Share Posted August 11, 2006 aww dont give up hope. there are plenty of girls out there who will love you for who you are! =) yeah thanks (haha the day you replyed was my b-day, lol) Link to comment
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