clit question

[cleveland9]

where exactly is a girls clit? never fingered a girl or anything, but planning on fingering my girl, but i dont know hwere teh clit is, so where is it!?

[Heretic]

The clit is not an area best fingered... you want something softer like you tongue to massage it. If you're going to finger her, I'd forget about it. I'd focus on rubbing the entire area, don't go inside the lips. Use your whole hand, keep your fingers straight rub down and harder up. Not too hard, let her tell you how she wants it. Keep enough pressure that her skin moves with you, not so little you're rubbing her pubic hair off. Then go with the flow, let her rock her hips into it, and don't rush putting your fingers inside or focus on the clit. It's not what she wants from your hand... they're too rough. Use her lips to massage her clit, she'll be thankful you did. If she doesn't masterbate, suggest that she starts. Once she finds out what she likes she can help you.

[S4il]

watch American pie #1 and pay close attention to THE book.... thats how i learned.

[SympatheticLoner]

go to this link:

 

soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/?article=anatomy&refid=007

[beloveddisciple]

A much better site with very good information.

 

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[artoferos]

You finger a vagina, you massage a clit - better still use your tongue.

 

A clit is naturally not lubricating and is very sensitive - so be very careful.