Sgnt_Slaughter Posted July 30, 2003 Share Posted July 30, 2003 ok this girl likes me and i dont like her. but i dont know why said id go out with her. What should i do? dump her? Ditch her? Link to comment
musicchicus Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 Doesn't really matter WHY you did it anymore, just matters that you did. NO, you shouldn't dump her or ditch her or any other cruel, selfish, immature ways of dealing with this... Rather, try talking to her kindly and gently and friendly and explain that although you agreed to date her, you really aren't prepared to do that right now. For whatever reason, LIE if you have too - just do it KINDLY AND GENTLY - you just can't AT THIS TIME. Tell her that you respect her and do not want to treat her badly and that is why you are telling her up front rather than leading her on. REMEMBER - this girl is a HUMAN BEING!!!! This girl has feelings, which regardless what excuse you use, will be hurt! This girl deserves to be treated better than being "dumped or ditched"... Link to comment
DealingWithIt Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 maybe you were trying to nice and didnt want to hurt her feelings? it would hurt her feelings if you just completely ditch her or even tell her that you dont like her in the first place. i guess try and give some excuse not to go out with her on that night. Link to comment
foreverurz23 Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 dont ditch here, thats the last thing that you wanna do. just lightly tell her the whole truth like you thought you liked her alot but something just changed and stuff. just do it so you dont hurt her becuase once someone has a heart brake, its there for along time.... ~foreverurz23~ Link to comment
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