NC to make them miss you. What is the point.

[onmyownagain]

Hi,

 

I read on here about going into NC so you can heal and hopefully make your ex miss you. But what is the point? My ex contacts me all the time over silly things because of the usual reasons you see here all the time.

 

But out of the thousands of posts on here that show the ex contacting you, how many actually end in a reconciliation? Not many I would guess, so why does everyone hope and pray they will as it seems very unlikely that it is going to happen.

[Twinkle_]

NC is also to help you heal, without your ex conplicating things for you.

[Bethany]

Although I do agree that NC CAN make them miss you, it's not the reason I personally would do it because you are not really moving on and healing yourself but are using it for an ulterior motive i.e. for them to miss you.

 

The only time I would consider NC is because I need the time and space to recover from my broken heart, to move on with my life etc and not to show them how much they have hurt me.