Can't orgasm at all...

[smashed]

I've tried masterbation with my fingers and a vibrator but no orgasm. I also can't achieve an orgasm when a guy performs oral sex on me. Are there any tips out there for women who are hard to please? I'm going crazy!

[MyNinja]

I suggest you read through the posts in this forum. believe me tons of other people asked this question, very common and can be found easily.

[kskm]

Are you just penetrating yourself, or are you stimulating your clitoris also?

[QTpie87]

you need to play with your cliteros more maybe, It's hard to have one if you don't, Probably couldn't unless it was stimulated in one way or another.

[Mythica]

I have to say, in my experience, to try different rooms of your house. It always helps me. Try different positions, like standing, sitting, leaning diff directions, squatting, on your knees, and of course, laying down. I find leaning really helpful.

[mommie2be]

Having an orgasm is tough if you have never had one before. However, you should really try clitorial stimulation

 

If you have the vibrator put it on high and place it on the clitoris pressing firmly moving it around a little. Keep it there for a while something should happen. I not keep trying.

 

As far as oral sex, there are lot of men who don't know how to do it right so one may not have an orgasm from it. Not unusual But you have to know your body and what you like. What feels good to you.