i need help with me and my girlfriend..

[DontAsK]

Hi. Ive been thinking about taking a break with my girlfriend and i think it would be a good idea because my friends tell me that it might make our relationship stronger.We have been going out for 1 year and about 4 months. But the reason i was thinking about taking a break was.. i was the only one that tried to help our relationship when we had problems and i would try to make it barable for both of us. She hasnt done anything in return and its starting to bother me. She says things to me and never shows it, on the other hand i tell her things and i let it show as much as possible. I just dont know what to do because i dont want to loose her.. if u got anything that would help please tell me...

ThnXx

[Love_Pengiun]

Well, I have sort of the same situation, but of course i got through it. Tell me, is she shy about duin stuff like that, if you caould tell me, then that would help me out

[DontAsK]

Well tell u the truth i dont know. But she knows that she isnt good at relationships. I just think shes not ready for a relationship and I am. i dont know what to do .

[rvr350]

Thanx for posting. DontAsk, I think you've just answered your own question on your last post. You can only do so much in a relationship. Love has to be a 2 way street, that means you and her has to give out as much as needed for each other. If you feel that this relationship doesn't progress as you expect, then you should make it known to her, because you shouldn't suffer for it. If she wants to give more, but just don't know how, be patient. Hope that helped.

[bananajuice]

Time to look for another girlfriend! And the reason you didnt want to lose her? It's because you haven't had a girlfriend on the side. If you did, you would be dumping this bi*ch so fast your head would spin. (Take this from an experience man.)

[Love_Pengiun]

My god that is the worst thing I've ever heard man! experiance my ass!