how can I pharse it?

[couragous]

There is this guy who is a friend of mine who I truly love.He been in love before but got really hurt(he never admit his love to her but stay around as a friend but she left for another guy).lately he has been winking to me ,but I am not sure he loves me(he is really shy).sometimes he shows interest and sometimes he doesn't which in return leaves me confused.I want to move on with my life if he isn't and yet I am scared I hurt him if he is if I move on .I am also really shy.Is there anything wrong with me asking him what he means when he winks to me and I tell him I understand he only wants to be friends ,and that I accept that to see his response .Is there any smart way to get him to show me if he loves me without me telling him directly.PLease help I am going crazy.

[magikal]

You should ask him what he means when he winks at you and then see what happens from there, if your meant to get together then you will! Don't worry too much i've got a feeling he does like you. xxxxx

[AngelOfDarknes]

hehehe yeh he likes ya...

[skyteph]

I don't think he might 'love' you as such, but I'd say he's coming onto you Why don't you ask him?