what makes a man "good in bed"?

[CoryD]

post your oppinions 0X

[amanda22]

knowing what the particular women he is sleeping with wants.

[tea]

a ton of foreplays~ A TON of them~

 

and never ever ever reach orgasm before girls reach orgasm..

 

... oral sex.

[emma34]

what makes a man good in bed..well in the beginning it is always pleasing the woman. knowing what she wants. lots of lots of kisses. lots of foreplay. lots of oral sex. doin it till ya can't take anymore. oh and size does matter haha

[Daisy20]

Making sure the woman orgasms too! Lots of foreplay, kissing, touching and of course being good at oral sex - not too rough! (FYI, the clit is NOT a button you need to push, it's like a genie in a bottle that needs to be rubbed the right way!!!) Eye contact is a plus!

[dontknowwhattodo]

I would say a long hug and some talk after sex. Don't just get up and go to shower!

[RayKay]

Someone who sees sex as an experience, not just an act, and is more than willing to bring me to orgasm multiple times....someone attentive, where I feel that I am an integral part of the process! Someone who has listened or paid attention to what I like and does that, who can be both soft and sweet, and play rough too (depending on my mood). Someone who is also willing to experiment and is comfortable talking about sex and works towards a healthy sex life. Someone who will pleasure the whole package...body, mind, soul and not just focus on certain areas. Who knows that foreplay starts LONG before you ever take your clothes off.

[dreamweaverdude]

RayKay,

 

I couldn't agree more.. the teasing and flirting with the clothes on is where it is at. Granted the other is great, but the touches and looks ....... the i cant to wait to have you looks and sounds

[tahlia]

Well for me i want to feel that its very passionate in bed. I want to feel that he wants me and wants to please me, he's not just wanting to do it for his own relief.

 

Communication is probably one of the most important things in bed besides having the physical and emotional connection. I need to know what he wants and vice versa, also whispering nice things during sex is a big turn on.

 

Spontaneity. How bout suggesting a different place or position instead of making sex a regular ritual. Spice it up, throw in a surprise, massage oils, body chocolate u name it!

 

Lastly make sure if you get off that your girl does too. Don't just run away as soon as you have finished, she has the same needs that you do.

[11flower]

Patience, consideration, tenderness, adventerousness, chivalry, subtle gestures beforehand, enjoying the experience. When the act is just to get off without giving pleasure to his partner, then it's not always enjoyable. But there's nothing wrong with just sex for sex's sake. Sometimes, like, the biological drive just takes over and you have to do something about it.

I don't have a problem with that, as long as for the most part there is patience, consideration, tenderness, adventerousness....

 

Absolutely gotta love libido.

 

 

 

11Flower