keeping it plain...

[denise_14]

i met this new friend, and in a short span of time we've become very close. he asked if he could court me and i said yes... then i realized that i dont want to be courted by him coz i would rather keep him as a friend for the meantime since we've only known each other for about only 4 months.. i told this to him through a letter and i was able to elicit a positive response from him. however, though we have agreed already that we're just friends, he still keeps on following me, and i get a little irritated and annoyed. how can i tell him in a nice way that i am already annoyed at him because we've already talked about this and he agrreed yet his actions show otherwise?

[raggamuffin]

Just tell him straight out and be honnest. No matter how you tell him if its going to annoy him it will regardless of if you say it the nice way or the "mean" way.