chelsea13 Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 I have a FWB but I only make out with him, he was going on and on about how hot and sexy I am and how he would love to go out with me if I stayed longer in the city. I was like, seriously?? Things that guys say to get girls in bed! Like is it true when he told me that I was so hot and sexy? He just talked about my body not my face. What are some of the things that guys have told you for the sake of getting in your pants? Link to comment
BrianH46 Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 I usually compliment a girl's body as well when I am getting to know her, complimenting her face seems a little too personal to me. On a side note it's usually the things I do when I want to get into a girl's pants rather than what I say. Link to comment
ToF Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 No, he was probably just telling you what he thought you wanted to hear. If you don't like it, you should probably end the FWB arrangement. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 I usually compliment a girl's body as well when I am getting to know her, complimenting her face seems a little too personal to me. On a side note it's usually the things I do when I want to get into a girl's pants rather than what I say. I would think this would be reversed. Link to comment
RitaTrue Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 I would think this would be reversed. I agree. Why is complimenting the face more personal than complimenting the body? Link to comment
BrianH46 Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 I would think this would be reversed. For me, physical appearances such as bust, waist, hip, are easily noticeable to most guys and is just as easy to compliment without putting yourself out there kind of similar to calling a girl hot. A compliment with no real substance or thought. Now when you have enough time to stare at her face to face and to be intimate enough to know the contours of her lips or the contrasting hues of her eyes, to let her know that you've been staring at her that much to notice is personal. Similar to a heartfelt "you are beautiful". When I compliment a girls face I feel vulnerable and cheesy but hey could be just me. I think the culture in which I was brought up in plays a role in how impersonal it is for a guy to compliment a woman's body as well because I'm pretty sure a few years back calling a girl sexy was reserved for boyfriends who got to see their woman bare and therefore personal. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 A stranger who compliments my body parts as opposed to my face is considered disrespectful, as it is obvious he only wants to get me into bed. No thanks! Link to comment
BrianH46 Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 A stranger who compliments my body parts as opposed to my face is considered disrespectful, as it is obvious he only wants to get me into bed. No thanks! Yep and is also sexual harassment but in the context of two people getting to know each other such as the one the OP posted about not so much. But still that doesn't really change my point, It's easier to call a girl hot then beautiful for guys. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 I would rather hear nothing at all. For me, a man would have much more success if he showed some originality in the conversation, rather than talking sexually. But, that's me. For me, smart is sexy!!! Link to comment
BrianH46 Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 Lmao I think the majority of women feel this way, just gonna take some time for us guys to figure that out. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 Lmao I think the majority of women feel this way, just gonna take some time for us guys to figure that out. Pass it around Link to comment
Generation Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 I have a FWB but I only make out with him, he was going on and on about how hot and sexy I am and how he would love to go out with me if I stayed longer in the city. I was like, seriously?? Things that guys say to get girls in bed! Like is it true when he told me that I was so hot and sexy? He just talked about my body not my face. What are some of the things that guys have told you for the sake of getting in your pants? He could have meant your face. I don't think you should take it disrespectfully. I'm not just saying that cause I'm a guy either and I feel I need to defend this guy. I also think that if you're gonna call him your FWB and you're already making out with him, then he's gonna think you're gonna wanna have sex, or he thinks you're both heading in the same direction. I also think that if you two are already making out, he's gonna definitely think you're hot and sexy, and quite possibly means it, not only cause he wants to get in your pants. Link to comment
SuperDuper Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 To the OP, I think you're overanalyzing things... you are making out with the guy but he's not allowed to state his opinion saying"You're sexy.. or you're hot" ?? It's not like he just approached you at a bar randomly, you're exchanging saliva, I don't think a compliment like "you're hot... I wish you could stay longer" is too invasive. But that's just me! If he knew you'd take it this way he probably wouldn't have said it in the first place. If a guy truly wants to get in your pants you'll be getting pretty clear vibes in my opinion. Sexual tension will be in the air, the source being his actions more so than his words. Link to comment
pinkelephant Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 Guys will say anything to get you into bed if that's their goal. There's no set thing, no obvious thing. A guy who wants sex isn't going to say they want to get you in bed. They will say they want children, marriage and the whole shabang if they think you're into it. Link to comment
somebunnyluvsu Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 Next guy who says "Anything for you".. and then doesnt follow through.. is getting a big hole in his head.. the worm will eat right through the core.. he will throw up maggots.. Link to comment
Donovan79 Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 Just use him for sex and move on. He'll be so confused that he was the one who got used he'll pick himself up and start insisting he should be your b/f. Don't listen to him. Link to comment
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