loulou37 Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 to help me on this 1 you need to read my origanal post now since this we have fallen out on the fone, yep i called him, and it went wrong!! now he says he wants nothing to do with me, the thing is, i want to go still to see him, pick up my bits, obviously see if we can work it out, its my last chance, ill never see him again, once i walk away, its over...... i just feel i nee to do this..what have i got to lose!! at the moment ive lost already. by the way he is in spain, i am in england..so this really would be the last chance. Link to comment
leq Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 Hey Loulou Dont panic. Nothing is final. You dont need to rush anything ok, this is not your last chance. For evidence of this. Read my threads on here. Leave things be for a bit. Evaluate your relationship as it was, and then decide weather you think its worth it to travel to a different continent to try and be with this guy. Link to comment
loulou37 Posted May 19, 2010 Author Share Posted May 19, 2010 the flight is booked, id never go again....i know if i dont see him now itll be done for good Link to comment
loulou37 Posted May 19, 2010 Author Share Posted May 19, 2010 why would i book another flight, were finished!! this would be my last ditch attept at gettin bak with him Link to comment
Adge Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 He knows you're coming over, right? Don't go with any expectation of reconciliation. You're obviously going to bring it up as you feel it's last chance saloon, so do it in a calm and collected manner. Smile! Link to comment
leq Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 He knows you're coming over, right? Don't go with any expectation of reconciliation. You're obviously going to bring it up as you feel it's last chance saloon, so do it in a calm and collected manner. Smile! +1 Link to comment
loulou37 Posted May 19, 2010 Author Share Posted May 19, 2010 noo he knew i was gonna come b4 we fell out on the fone....he said he wants nothing more to do with me now. i was juts gona go turn up, try talk, get my stuff then leave. Link to comment
leq Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 Has he given you a reason for "wanting nothing to do with you"? Link to comment
loulou37 Posted May 19, 2010 Author Share Posted May 19, 2010 yes.. he has, but its something i cant go into here....i done something, and he thinks im irresponsible. he said he doent want a person like me in is life Link to comment
FrenchFries Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 He has told you he doesn't want to see you. I personally would not go. What if he has company? You're gonna get yourself hurt and end up looking like a stalker. If he's stated that he no longer wants anything to do with you it would not be wise to go. As always the choice is yours, and you seem intent on going so let us know how it goes. I hope I'm wrong and it does not end up being a traumatic experience for you. Link to comment
loulou37 Posted May 19, 2010 Author Share Posted May 19, 2010 your right, i know you are...i just been getting on off urges cus the flights coming up...sometimes im not even thinking straight...let alone thinking! Link to comment
Formula Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 Sounds like you might be better staying put lou. It really sounds like this guy might close the door on you when you get there.That would be crushing. If you do go i hope it works out for you. Link to comment
loulou37 Posted May 19, 2010 Author Share Posted May 19, 2010 thanx formula, i know ure all right im just soo crazy at the mo...cant even bluddy think straight....i dont know how much more of this i can take...been to the docs today, he put me on antidepressents these exs have got a lot to answer for!! if they brake with us decent its easier to handle it. Link to comment
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