loulou37 Posted May 10, 2010 Share Posted May 10, 2010 my ex broke up with me in oct 09, i pretented id moved on with my life that id changed and it worked 3 mnths later we were back on, i was sooo happy, now what i want to know, if i do the same again could it work to get him back again, o does this stuff only work once? please dont say move on, i want to get this back on if poss, and this time its my last chance as we live in difffernt countries, ill be there for a week at the end of may, with him, stayin in the same bed, as he lives in a caravan and theres nowhere else to sleep. now he asked me to come back, also i have to collect my things....is there hope? Link to comment
loulou37 Posted May 10, 2010 Author Share Posted May 10, 2010 forgot to say, yea 6mnths later and hes split with me again.... Link to comment
maalox Posted May 10, 2010 Share Posted May 10, 2010 It can work more than once, because I'm living proof. He will get done with it at some point though. Your ex likely views "this stuff" as you yanking his heart around. Link to comment
Brigadoon Posted May 10, 2010 Share Posted May 10, 2010 You say you pretended to change? What was it that you felt you needed to pretend to change? Why did he break up with you the first time and the second? Need a few more details here... Link to comment
loulou37 Posted May 10, 2010 Author Share Posted May 10, 2010 i had said i was at college, working, etc... i think thats why he wanted me back, he seen a more confident, strong person while i was living in spain i wasnt working so that caused a lot of clingyness in our relationship, on my behalf, he dint want a weak needy person around him, normal i know....the second time we broke up because he saw guys added to my facebook, i didnt think that would be a problem, cause he had done the same thing for the 1st year we were togehter, also when i would visit him i was moody and huffy his words... but it was because i spent so much time alone due to him working...so he said the thing with the facebook was the icing on the cake Link to comment
Adge Posted May 10, 2010 Share Posted May 10, 2010 Sometimes I wish Facebook didn't exist! It causes soooo many relationship problems! Does he know how you feel? Does he know you want him back? Link to comment
loulou37 Posted May 10, 2010 Author Share Posted May 10, 2010 well when i was there he saw how devastated i was, he finished with me half hour after i got there, i couldnt remember adding a certain guy that was half dressed to my facebook, so so basically when he asked me it was like i was lieing in his face, i was stuck there for 2 weeks as the flights were cancelled, it was hell...we only got back together 6mnths ago and he knew how happy i was, i put my all in to this relationship paid alll the flights etc... Link to comment
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