she wont talk

[alsan]

i cant get my gf to talk, it's absolutely impossible, can someone please help me

[Tinkerbell]

What do you mean you can't get her to talk? Do you mean you can't get her to open up, or she's literally become mute?

[QTpie87]

so you can't get the girl to talk. well then, i think i can help you out in that area a lot. only i also don't understand which one you mean. opening up, or just blabbing? well pm me and let me know and i'll help ya.

love Qtpie87

[1Adam12]

I think he means getting her to open up but I could be wrong.

[alsan]

sorry for not being specific, i do mean open up, out conversations are usually really short. just like a what's up and not much else

[hersheyskiss4u]

she is probably just shy. I know that i only use one word sentences when I talk to ppl unless i am really comfortable with them which usually takes me years. you just need to give her time

[Ems31]

yeah she is def. shy. my bf broke up with me partly because of that reason yeah just give her time. talk to her about things that she likes or go somewhere with her and her friends trust me on that one it will def work. you will get to see how she really acts. you could also try talking to her about this. my ex only mentioned it but we never actually had a conversation about this. tell her you would like it if she was more open but let her know you will give her some time b/c she might not be fully comfortable yet

[alsan]

when ever i bring up the fact that we dont talk that much she always tries to blame it on me, i'm seriously considering breaking up with her unless you guys can help me out

[primal98]

Been there before d00d... to tell you the truth I don't think there is much you can do. I was in the same situation b4, I spent 3 months trying to get her to "talk"... yeah that didn't work, and when I brought it up she said I was the one not talking(yeaaaaaaaaah I think aim logs and phone records would tell a diff story ). Keep trying, and if not, well ure waisting your time.

 

~prime