Talking to Girls

[bobmx]

Hey, i never have any problem starting a conversation its always the aftermath what does me.. i always say hey, how are you? and what have u been up2? but then i never know what to say after that so if any of you would mind helping me out.. thanks a lot bobmx

[bobmx]

please some body help me because i really do like the girls i know but i dont know what to say.. thanks

[just_smile]

hey bob

i would just find out what they are interested in and what you have in common and then strike up a conversation from there because if you have certain things in common then that is one thing you can talk about.

 

hope this helps

~LJ =;

[bobmx]

Hey, thanks for that.. but how would i find out what they like to do? and how would i know what we have in common..

 

but thanks a lot for your help

[just_smile]

hey again

you could either ask a friend to find out what you have in common or that could be some thing you talk about you could say something like ' so what kind of music do you like' or something along those line.

 

~LJ =;

[bobmx]

ok, thanks a lot for your help.. ur the only person who has helpped me and i would like to thank you again!

[just_smile]

hey

its ok dont worry anytime you need help you can ask me, i hope things work out

~LJ =;

[bboyartist]

I've found out that when I ask questions like: What's your favorite music" the answer is usually: "I really don't know..I like all types of music". How can you avoid asking questions like that and still maintain a lively conversation? What other topics besides music, work, and school can you possibly find in common with members of the opposite sex?

[Emotional]

another one..

like

maybe we can do something afterschool??..ask that one

or ask what they are doin after school..ask something like

so do u have ur permit yet or somethng like that..ya kno..