Am I being hard on myself?

[Ry2003]

It has been nearly 6 months since she broke us up with the "its not you, it's me excuse".

 

After all this time she is still on my mind on more than one occasion everyday, I have slept with 9 girls since her and yet I still think of her all the time, despite some of the greatest experiances.

 

I just want to forget her, what is wrong with me?! Is it a case of wanting what I cannot have?!!

 

How long did it take you to get over the thoughts and into the comfort stage where you don't really think of her/him at all?

[ultimate_you]

umm .... it does take time to get over him/ her but every bodys different. so b patient and after a while u should get over her!!!! it took me a whole yr and a 1/2 2 get over my 1st bf so who knows how long it'll take 4 u!?

luv ultimate_you

[Cid]

It is hard to say how long it takes but someday you will get over her (but probley not all the way)

[lunatic]

I can only say that it takes time so relax it will get better day by day. Eventually you will not think about her/him that much at all. You will know someday that you feel better because you haven't thought about her/him for a long while.

[idiotme]

I think the thoughts and feelings toward a person you loved will never go away. However, time will eventually suppress those thoughts and feelings.

As for myself, I realize the more i try to get rid of them the more i think of them.

But when i say to myself, if you loved someone with all your heart and soul you're already being loved, it feels much better.

 

That's my experience.