Hey all,
If you compare dating to a subject in school, you won't pass the exam if you don't study. By having more knowledge in the subject increases confidence and to do well in the exam. That's why I am writing this forum so I can learn from others experience and perspectives.
I am quite a shy person but I am taking baby steps into opening myself up because shyness had made me miss on so many opportunities in the past.
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Heres my scenario that I need help with:
I noticed this girl that I am interested in recently working in one of the shops in the shopping mall. Here are the things I picked up.
First time I met her when I bought something from the shop I noticed her always had her head down with a smile. I also noticed that she had her hands on the counter with half her palm showing. (Sign of openness?)
Two weeks later, I went back to the store and ask her about one of the products. I purposely took a step forward closer so I was standing pretty close next to her while she was answering my question. I definitely invaded her personal space but she didn't move back or anything (Does this show anything). Again, the whole time she didn't made eye contact.
A week later, I bought something from the shop again. Again she avoided eye contact with her head down and seems nervous. I noticed that when she was giving me the change, she quickly looked up and had a peek at me for a split second then looked down again. (Any reasons of why she did that)
Few weeks later, while I walked past the shop I saw her fiddling around the shelves near the entrance of the shop. As I was walking past, she somehow knew I was there and turned around facing towards me. I was pretty sure she saw me but I didn't know what expression she had on her face because I looked away and continued walking.
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From my above observations, do you think she is shy and interested in me or I am just reading too much into things?
I am wondering any of you girls out there did some of the things she did towards a guy.
Are people in general are shy around the person they like? If so, wouldn't this be the biggest signal you can observe if a person is interested in you or not?
So any opinions and feedback from both male and female are appreciated and invaluable to me.
He-man
