alaconda

thanks for the responses guys well... ME TOO!!! I never thought I would get attach to someone this much... this is actually weird feeling. We have so much history together... we have been through thick and thin w/ each other for a long time... maybe that's why it is so hard to walk away... ... I did date other girls... and yeah... she just flat out told me that she doesn't like it... and that she is jealous of it. But when I ask her why... she couldn't explain... she just think that those girls are not right for me. And it is also hard for me to date these other girls when I am so into her still... you know? I always back right out as soon as things get serious w/ me and these girls... .... how sad... *lol I do that a lot actually... and this is what she would do... she would call me like every hour (really... exact an hour apart)... or send me text msgs on my cell... or better yet... she would start calling my friends to find out where I am at... she has problem??? I THINK SO!!!! and no... she still says that she doesn't like me THAT way... ... you know what? she did mention something like that... and she did once said and I quote "It's hard for me to believe that someone like you could like me... when I can't even accept myself..." so yeah... she does have this insecurity thing going on... OH YEAH... she did... yeah... my feelings are genuine... that's for sure! BUT... sometimes things are just not meant to be right? and that's what I am afraid of... I don't wanna waste my time and pass up on other chances... you know? That's why I feel so stuck...

hi, I am new here... and I have a question on this topic. I am kinda stuck in this relationship w/ this good friend of mine. Her and I known each other for many years now. We have been best of friends for a long time, and I fell in love with her couple of years ago. I actually told her how I feel... and she told me that she did actually liked me just a year or so before I told her my feelings. Well, she told me that she is into this other guy for a while now, they are not together... but she can't get over him. And she told me that she doesn't really know how she feels about me, she thinks of me as her "big brother" and she said she would never risk our friendship. BUT here is the problem, she gets really jealous when I talk to other girls, she always want to know where I am at and who I am talking to, she always want to see me, she feels guilty if she goes out and not telling me where she is at... and she thinks that her day is longer if she doesn't get to talk to me. WHAT IS THAT ALL ABOUT? I think she has a problem... whether she has a problem admitting her feelings or she just needs attentions... but I do really like her... I don't know what to do. I can't just stop talking to her cuZ she is a really good friend... Do you think it's worth to wait? Will she ever realize? And is it true that nice guy finish last? (sorry for such a long msg...)