Babetears

thanx im still ify if i should ask or not... but i guess for now i will let it go and ask later when i think it's time to ask.... i don't know... heheh thanx for the advice though...

i guess i just want to know... so i shouldn't ask then... and just let it be...

I think i am ready to give up on my ex... i don't think i want him back anymore... after all the advice i got and opinion from everyone i know.. i come to a conclusion that i don't think i want him back and that i am better off without him.. since he is not going to change for the better but for the worst... but since i don't want him back any more should i even bother ask him what is the main/real reason why he broke up with me... give me advice on should i ask him or not... thanks...

can someone give me more advice on this please... anyone???

Crapie, so did you stay in contact with your ex?? or did he contact you???

i did hound him about not spending times with me... he is always with his friends... we hardly spend any time alone.. like going to the movies alone.. etc. i guess he's probably lost interest with me then... cause i don't think he is depressed or have low-self esteem... well we didn't fight a lot... he thinks i get mad at him a lot... and the reason why i get mad at him a lot because he doesn't give me any attention.... the only attentions i get from him is when his friends are gone that is when he will give me all the attention... yea ofcourse when that happens i am usually asleep by then... that's all the friends i got they are mostly male... but i don't think he is insecure ... at the beginning he did say he doesn't mind if i go out with my male friends ... but i don't know how he thinks now... well i think i did threaten to leave him before if he is to go out with girls... i don't remember...

i feel you... that is how i feel the very first day... but i am getting better... but i still have those feeling... the worst part for me is because he left me... there is so many unanswer question from him... that i want to know.. but i guess i will never know... i reallie hate this pain too.. there are times i thought of killing myself too but ofcourse i didn't or else i wouldn't be here... the only contact i had with him was the very first day he left me.. i emailed him that was it.. after that i have not contact him.. or have he contact me... but i know one day he will have to contact me to get my stuff back from him.. i don't know when though... i think it will be 2 weeks from today... but who knows im not sitting around and wait for that call or email... well the truth is i am sitting around at home have nothing to do... so i come on this site a lot... just reading the comments people write on here... sometimes it makes me feel better but there are times it makes me wanna cry...

he already told me that... as a break up... so i want to know what he really mean when he said that... i don't want to call him and ask him because i am on a no-contact with him rite now...

i feel you... today is my six days with no-contact with my ex too.. i check my email... and my phone all the time just to see if he calls or email...but i got nothing from him... i miss him a lot... just want to hug him and not let him go... i want to call him so bad too but im not going to let myself do that... im going to stick with the no-contact rite now... hoping one day he will break it... i see him online too ... it is so hard for me to see him online and yet can not message him... but i am holding on rite now... sticking with the no-contact rules... hope this no-contact rules does reallie work for me... hopefully you will feel better one day... hopefully i will too... later...

What does a guy mean when he say "I think you are better off with another guy, you may be happier with him, and he may have more time for you?... i know all guys are different but i want some opinion from you guys and girls.... thanx...

my sister told me to bring a guy with me to go get my stuff... should i do that??? im still vague about should i ask him if we can still be friends or should i wait til he ask me... i reallie want to stay friends with him.. even though i still love him...

i have a question... when my ex call me to get my stuff ... should i ask him if we can still be friends??? or should i wait til he ask??? need some advice here.... thanks...

i know going out with friends are good... but i don't have much friends now.. i don't have much friends before i went out with him.. and ever since im with him... im with him every weekend... cause we live in 2 different cities... so whenever i am off im with him... now whenever i am off my friends are working... i work for the casino so i work on days that my friends are usually off...beside this weekend...that is it...

i thought i was getting better but i guess i am not... cause i just cried again today.. i didn't cried for 2 days but somehow today i just started to cry....i reallie misses him... reallie bad....

thanx... i know it's very hard... right now im counting on going to work to forget everything... but this weekend i have 4 days off... i don't know what to do.. whenever i am off so many days i am usually with him... this really sux... but i guess i will try and see if my friends are busy or not.. and go out with them.. if not then most likely i will be on here reading comments... but thanks a lot....

his reason for calling is to give me my stuff back.. so are you telling me to not answer his call... and not get my stuff back???

so far no contact with him until he call to tell me to get my stuff... that is going to be the last contact im going to have with him...

thanx a lot... im pretty sure i will be on this a lot more now...

the last time i saw him... i didn't cry in front of him... i cried before i saw him and cried after i saw him... i hold it back...

what is a good way to stop thinking of him.. it's killing me inside...

most likely i will bring one of my friend with me... but i don't know if she will be busy or not... but i don't get the second question...

i feel like crying right now... i miss him so much...

im going to get my stuff not him getting his stuff...

thanx... i feel like i am getting better...especially when i did not cry yesterday and today... thinking back.. sometimes i think i am better without him.. i guess i just need time to stop thinking about him.. or think of the stuff we've been through... happy and sad... right now what im really afraid of is.. when he call me to get my stuff i don't know what to say to him.. im trying to go places with my friends now.. i lost so many of my friends when i was with him.. now im trying to get in touch with my friends again... and go travel and have some fun... hehehe thanx again...

i know the fact that i will see him again within the next 2 week cause he have to return some stuff to me.. unless he have someone handing it to me... then i won't get to see him... so i shouldn't ask him even if i see him???

You can close your eyes to things you dont want to see, but you cant close your heart to things you dont want to feel.

I just want to know the truth and move on with my life....eventhough i know the truth will hurt... but without know the truth then it will keep me thinking what did i do wrong... but i guess in a way i should not ask him the question...i don't know i am very confuse rite now...

Hi it's me the one who wrote about (How to mend a broken heart?). Im doing fine today.. i didn't cry.. sleeping better now...but still not feel like eating much... anyway today i have a question to ask everyone and tell me what you think i should do... i was wondering just now... should i ask him what is the main reason he left me... i want to know if it was because he don't love me anymore or was it because i am not a perfect gf for him... so please let me know if i should ask him those questions... ofcourse i will not call him.. whenever he call should i ask him that??? let me know...

Thanx... xoxoxo

You can close your eyes to things you dont want to see, but you cant close your heart to things you dont want to feel. (Unknown)

so are you trying to tell me to call him and tell him how i reallie feel about him... or just to let it go and move on???? so did your ex ever called you A&F model???

i don't know why but somehow i don't think he will call me and see how i am doing...