Hi, I have been married for almost 2 years now....my problem is that my husband and I do not have sex often....and I think it's because I gained a lot of weight. I desire my husband but now I am beginning to think it's pointless to keep initiating b/c I know he isn't attracted to me. He has said in the past that he likes thin women. We have been together for 16 years (we were high school sweethearts) and our sex life prior to getting married was wonderful....of course, I was quite thin all those years....I think the only solution for me is to try and lose weight...I must point out that he is still very affectionate and loving to me...What do you think?
