lost_love

Well.. I never really knew her very well but we began to talk and then i decided to go for it the first time but would this be an opportunity to get back on speaking terms? or would you think the prom is a bit OTT for that... and if so what would break off the no-contact situation?

Well its like this... I asked this girl out about a month and a half ago... but she rejected me... after that there was no communication between us whatsoever... i felt really down initially and only recently have i overcome the 'rejected' feeling... However, I still like her but I would like to get back to the stable 'friends' level before pushing anything... The prom is coming up in 2-3 months time and i believe she hasn't been asked yet... Would it be pushing the line too much if I asked her to go with me to the prom? Afterall... I haven't spoken to her since rejection day and somehow I don't think it would be right... I don't have to take action right now, but I don't really know what to do... The no-contact does help you simmer down btw... (lil tip for others who are feeling down ) - lostandfound

yea, i'll jsut have to try and get to know her better... was i too rushed? it was valentines day and i didn't want to let the opportunity pass

Well its like this.. tomorrow is valentines day and theres this girl in my year that i really like (im still a 16 year old) I asked her if she would like to do something with me after school but she said it was too sudden (last minute..) and she wasn't ready... plus the fact that i don't know her all that well.. sure we talk but we're on the 'just become friends' level... Afterwards she left and all my friends told me that i should forget her... 'there are more fish in the sea' but i dunno... i honestly like her... its different to how iv felt for any girl before... should i wait a couple of weeks maybe a month or so.. get to know her better.. then ask her out again? I know theres alot of talk about whats the point of waiting even possibly 2 months but i really like her and i feel she's worth it.. Give me some advice guys.. im not feeling particularly cheerful as it is