hey .... Thanks for all your replies. I spoke to her and she told me shes really in love with me and that shes willing to change for me. But the thing is that this is not the only thing she has been involved in. When i first met her she was working in one of those CAM Sites...were she had to show her body for people that go private with her. As soon as i knew she was doing this.. i told her not to do it if she loves me, that she needed to change and indeed she quit and found another job...but after a couple of weeks i was checking her email and found out that she was actually trying to work there again.I got really pieced and we had a fight because of that. Then she told me that she couldnt find any other job... after that day she told me to forgive her that she loves me alot and she made a promise that she wouldnt do it again. But I dont trust her anymore...everything that she saids its like a lie to me but i love her so much that i keep forgiving her ...but deep inside me.. I know this is not a good women for me! I wish i can just change the way she is because i really like her and love her alot..but i cant change the impossible. So i dont know what to do now...