Hello. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 10 months now and before we had sex he acted as if he was going to want it all the time, but ever since we did he hardly ever wants it. I am always the instigator (i can think of once in 10 months that he was). I have heard from his ex- girlfriends that he was the same with them and so they broke it off b/c they could not deal with it. The problem for me is that he is absolutely perfect for me in EVERY other way except in the sex department. When we do finally get to have sex it is good, but he thinks I am being silly when I try to be "sexy" and try new things...he says I am too cute and not "sexy." I love him so much....please give me some advice!!!!
thank you
