Neo

thanks man thats helped alot, yeh i dont want to break them up, mainly cos i couldnt do it, but I will take your advise and keep talking and hang around with her etc. as she knows it means she will be more aware that i like her more than just a friend, i hope it turns out ok, she seems pretty cool about it, thanks again

I am new here but i would love if you could answer my question. I met a girl a while back, about 2 months now and I really got along with her well. She is fantastic, looks great and has a perfect personality, she lives quite close to me and I really really like her. We seem to get along great and although I dont see her often I speak 2 her via msn alot and thru sms, we make good friends and I really like her, I like her alot. The downside is she has a boyfriend, I havent met him nor really know much about him which has its pros and its cons, i mean i dont have to face him, but in reality i dont really know how they are together. She has said some stuff like "I love him, well i think" meaning she isnt sure, which might show some problems, but she hasnt said anything about any so its possible either way. They have been together for about 6 months i have been told, which isnt the longest relationship ever, but for 15 and 16 year olds is a fair time, but like i said, the relationship could be solid as a rock or as weak as a blade of grass, i dunno. I would ask but it will be too obvious, and as i dont know her friends (well not many) i cant really ask them without her finding out, and I told her I like her and how i feel so I cant find out from her without looking desperate. When i told her she seemed quite pleased and surprised, which is a good thing, she also sed she liked me and found me to be really cool and liked me, but I am guessing she meant "but nothing more" or at least thats what i think, she sed that she thought it was possible something could happen in the future, as if to say its not a lost hope, but I dont see me having much chance while she is still attatched, i dont wanna break it up and her not wanna get anywhere with me, but then again if they did split i think the chance is there, the question is what do i do? I could wait a little while and see how our friendship develops and see what she says about her bf, or what? I dont know.. shes cool about it so theres no fear there, but I cant wait for ever.. please help! Neo