I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 2 and a half years. We onlyhave a few issues yet, they always seem to be coming from me. Is it me? I dont know what to think. I have known him for over four years and we started going out at the end of his senior year in High School. Now that we go to separate colleges I dont see him but for at most once a week. He is very shy sometimes and keeps to himself and gets quiet when he gets upset. So most of the time we never get anything solved. I love him to death... but for some reason I always have something lurking in the back of my mind telling me that I need to break up with him. I know that it would hurt him as well as I too much if I did that. It always seems like I am unhappy or complaining about somethink in our relationship. He never says anything that he feels is wrong with our relationship because he says that I am too "sensitive". I dont know what he is talking about. Sometimes I wish that he was a little more sensitive. We have got to the point to which we argue about something wheter large or small at least 3 times a week. And it always comes down to the same thing. I dont want to break up with him...ummm... but at the same time I sometimes think that it would be in the best interest for me and him so we would have room and time to grow without each other in our lives.What should I do... stay with him and continue to try to find ways to work it out... take a break...or offically break up? THanks ... a woman in need
