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Well it looks like things might just be able to be saved. I registered for the choices program which is from what she said is better than a years worth of counselling and she said to me that this is a big step for me in proving to her how much I care and what our relationship to work. I know it will take a lot of time and effort and I believe that if I can deal with my problems I am sure we can work things out between us. This is the first glimpse of hope that all might not be lost

I need help. 16 months ago I split up with my wife we were having lots of problems that we couldnt resolve. 5 months after we separated I started dating and we moved in together after a couple months of seeing each other every day. We dated for 9 months and we had lots of problems in the last 4 months of our relationship. 3 days after we split up my wife called me to see if I wanted to meet up with her. We went out and talked for a long time and we started working things out over a month and a bit and I was having problems as it was not truly knowing where my emotions were and she made a couple comments to me when i was trying to figure out if I could forgive her for some of the things she had done. I was so confused and mixed up that I went back to my girlfriend. After 2 weeks of being with her I started piecing things together and I realized it was her that I loved. I had a long chat with her last night and she had said even though I already knew that she was kinda seeing someone and that person is a friend of ours that I have known for years who just split up with his wife 3 months ago. I told her that I wanted her back, she said I don't know. I am not sure if I can ever forgive you for what you have done. How can I win her trust and prove to her that I want to spend the rest of my life with her?