I don't really know how to put this. My husband and I have been together for 5 years. My sex drive has always been less than his, but it seems lately he wants it all the time, while I really am never in the mood. There when I am in the mood, he is not around. It seems like I am pleaseing me more than he is. I just don't know how to fix this.
I don't really like the way I look even though he says he does, and I get nervous when it is time for the two of us to make love. I have been trying to do it anyway but I can tell the effect is not the same. If anyone has any advice I would really appriciate it.
I don't want to lose him over something like this, but I don't want to force myself into doing something that I don't seem capable of doing as often as he wants me to.
