Marrying someone much older does have disadvantages--for me "fear of what people say"...you can't avoid it there are those who judges and discriminate--as long as you are not living in sin, why worry.
My husband is 40 years older than me. Early in his life he was hurt in a relationship and it took him sooo000 long to shake off the pain. He looks 20 years younger than his age when I met him---physically fit, attractive, very out-going, has strong positive outlook in life---overall 99% healthy. Now we are 8 years together and its getting better. As long as you are not living in SIN, God will bless your marriage.
