kingkevin

Hi JustAnotherFriend, I hear you, but I don't think she will get better. I should have ended after 1 month, but I didn't want to hurt her feelings because of her condition, 10 months later i'm still her with the same problem, but it's worst. I don't want her to hurt herself, and I would feel guilty for the rest of my life if anything would happen because of me. I fell trapped in this relationship. Thanks for your advice, kingkevin

I'm 21, and I've been with this 21 year old girl for just over 11 months. I relized after 1 month that she is not the girl for me because she is always depressed. I though i could help her, but no matter how hard i try she keeps on getting worst. It's like she's using that to hold on to me. She gets upset about everything, she's mad at me when i'm not with her, and when i'm with her. I am forced to lie to her to try to keep her from getting upset, but it's not worth it because she get's upset either way. She wants marrige, she wants me to move in with her. I don't think that either will help her, and this relationship will end up doomed eventually. What can i do to get help for her? I don't know where to go. Lately she's been trying to hurt herself. she gets violent trowing objects, and trying to hurt herself with glass. I can't continue living in a lie. I don't want to be with her, I don't want to hurt her (that's why i'm still with her after 10 months). HELP!!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO?