my husband of 12 years has asked me to leave the home, because he is sick of us fighting, which i agree....
but when i moved out, he was busy packing for his fishing weekend away..
he says that he doesnt want us to live together anymore....at the moment, he says that this trip was for him to think things over, when was he going to do that, when he was fishing, drinking, partying with OUR friends, or sleeping? He is also partying with the friends that used to me OURS and he has no idea why that hurts me, one of them, a married woman will NOT stop flirting with him and he thinks i should be ok with that.
i have leased a house for 6 months....should know in that time if we are going to get back together or not.
while we are separated i asked him not to see anybody else....his answer was "i dont know, maybe"...then he asked "for how long"...then he says he if he meets someone else then of course he doenst want me anymore....I feel that he is going thru a mid life crisis, he was 25 when we met and i was 31, i think he is want to sow some wild oats so to speak.....how am i supposed to read these messages....in the next sentence he says just wait till the dust settles and see what happens???
i feel that he is RID of me but cant tell me, and is saying all these hurtful things to me to make me not want HIM anymore.......he tells me he doesnt need me but its not the same as not wanting me........and he says i play mind games???
i would be interested to hear a MALE point on this subject
