Candise

Hi. Your story is SO the same as mine. I started off just like you. I have been with my husband for six years. He also looked at porn before I ever moved in with him. I told him when I moved in he would have to get rid of it. I thought he did. Over the past six years I have been "battling" him over this. I have threaten to leave him several times. He also has hide porn several times in different spots in our house. I have made our computer impossible for him to look at it so I thought it would stop. Little did I know he has had a porno tape hidden in the structure of our cabinet. I found him watching this last Friday. I have told him several times that he needs help but until this last time he wouldn't do it. I was torn between just accepting it or just leaving. I love my husband more than anything. Porn is very addicting and should not be ignored. My husband also only likes to have sex about once a week. I also felt like you that was something wrong with me but it is not. If your boyfriend tells that he will stop I really hope he does but if he continues to hide it I would push for him to stop and get help. Please take my experience and learn from it. This is destroying our marriage. This is the only thing we fight about. It will destroy your relationship if he doesn't stop.