I concur with jalay 100%.
There are 16 years between my husband and I. When we met and married, he looked very young and it didn't really matter. As the years have passed, it has become more and more of a stumbling block to the point of breaking the relationship. I am now only 27 and he is 43. It affects everything from our social life to our romantic life and it makes me miserable.
The marriage no longer satisfies my needs, but I don't want to hurt him by leaving him either. I cannot describe in sufficient words what a mistake it would be for you to remain with someone much older than you.
The people who have said their relationship is okay are probably still in the very early stages. Do not commit yourself long-term to a much older person.
