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i just wanna thank everyone for helping me out... i am now going out with girl #1 because i figured i'd just go ahead and give her 1 last freaking chance..girl #2 is currently not talking to me...maybe i can change that and get her to be my back-up in case something happens with girl #1...i know that sounds bad but i don't want to be alone and hopefully girl #1 will change and everything will be ok...thanks everybody you guys rule

if i go back out with girl #1 and she changes that would be great but i still feel something for girl #2 if i go out with girl #2, then girl #1 will be miserable and alone if i go out with girl #1 and she doesn't change...then we will break up and i will also have lost girl #2 i want girl #2 b/c i don't believe girl #1 will change. that's what i want to do but i still feel bad about leaving girl #1 although she is mean to me because she is nice sometimes too btw, sorry for re-posting but after i read it i felt i didn't quite get the point accross.. PLEASE PLEASE reply i'm desperate. i need all the advice i can get please!!

hi...i signed up to this board just to ask this so please someone help me. me(i'm a guy) and my girlfriend of a year and 4 months just broke up. now, she would get very very angry at me for very small things and she has a bad temper problem and is quick to say she hates me. we had a very big argument about this. she does things like this quite often at least once a week. during this big argument, i decided and i told her that i would leave her if she gets mad at me for things that are not even remotely my fault just one more time. she said she wouldn't do that again. now let me state that sometimes she is just the sweetest angel in the world. and then she turns into satan and hurts me and others. so, 3 days pass and she is ok. then she gets mad at me again for extremely silly things. she gets extremely mad you see. she stabbed me with a fork in the leg even. so i dumped her. a day later, she wants me back very bad and she PROMISES change over and over. she guarrentees it. i already gave her a chance. so i'm still mad and i start to talk to other girls. there's another girl(girl #2) who i think would like to date me but i'm not 100% sure if she likes me enough. girl #2 is a lot better to me. but nevertheless, i'm still in love with girl #1. she is beyond sweet at one moment and horrible the next. she has a bad temper problem. here's my choices: i love girl #1...but i don't believe she'll change, although she says she will and i would like that very much if she did change though i want girl #2 also and i think we can have an amazing relationship because i've known her for years. i am sick of the way girl #1 treats me...but if i go back out with her and she doesn't change i'm screwed completely b/c i'm sure that girl #2 will not want me(trust me..i don't want to post the reason but you have to believe me) after i go back with girl #1 and then break up again WHAT DO I DO!?