Jade12

Thanks for the help. I went and talked to the woman that he cheated on me with and It turns out that theres a 50% chance that this child is his. I decided that I am going to stick by him, He wrote me a letter and told me that I was the only one that he loved and that he knows that he will have to gain my trust again. He wants me to teach him how and that if I want him to leave, he will. I asked him to go to counseling with me and he said that he would. I think if I can have some help to work through this, it might turn out ok. If this child turns out to be his, he will step up to the plate and be the father. I just hope we love each other enought to make this work. Thanks for you great words of advice in these bad times. Jade12

I have been with the same guy for 2 years and we were planning to get married in Sept. I just found out today that He cheated on me once with someone that I know. She says that she is now 9 weeks preg. and claims that its his and he says they only slept together 3 weeks ago. I love this man with all my heart and I want to marry him and have his children, on the other hand, if hes cheated once, will he do it again? what if this child is his? I have so many questions running through my head. I want her to have an abortion if its his. On the other had, Im agianst abortion. Im so confused, Should I just walk away? Or do I follow my heart and decided when I find out if its his child or not? HELP