donhagen2121

I told Melanie's mother a few weeks ago, about me walking in on them making out, and my concerns about them taking the next step. She herself, as a teenage mother, knows the consequences that can come as a result of teen sex. We both agree that we cannot stop them, so we decided it was best that we give them some support, but make sure we set bounds for the. They both take sex ed as a part of Phys. Ed. in school, so we didn't feel the need to tell them about the risks as they already know them. We did however make both of them take blood test for STDs, just to be on the safe side, and they were both clean. We also set the following list of rules for them: -Melanie must be on birth control (condoms are not always the most reliable protection, and could be forgotten in the heat of the moment) -They must remain loyal to each other, or at least break it off if before sleeping with somebody else We feel that this should help keep them safe, to an extent, and we realize that these thigs are never 100%, but we do the best we can. But seriously people, about the earring thing???

thanks to all of you who replied, and your suggestions sound helpfull, but any other suggestions, especially on him getting his ears pierced will be very much accepted.

I am a single 33 year old man. My wife died about 9 years ago. Lately my 14y/o son, Chase, has be going trough a period where he is trying to chage his entire image. I bought him one of those chains that boys have been wearing recently, but recently he has approached me about getting his ear pierced. He said he wanted 2 in his left earlobe, and one in his left cartilage, but he says he'll only where 2 (max) at a time (either both in lobe/ one in lobe, one in cartilage/ just one in cartilage/ just one in lobe). I guess it would be okay, I've considered getting my ear pierced since he brought it up. In addition to this, Chase has also got a girlfriend lately named Melanie. I walked in on them making out once, and now that I found out, he has been asking me all sorts of questions about girls, and my love life. Itend to date younger women, about 10 year younger. My son has started asking me about my sex life, and I realised, I was totally fine with it. But it occurred to me, maybe I'm being a boit TOO open with him. Im affraid I'm inspiring him to try it, and teenage sex is fine with me, I did it when I was his age, but naturally, I'm affraid of Melanie getting pregnant. Please give me some advice