The_Groovy_One

Ok just to bring closure i called her. said i was cool with friends. Gonna see her 2morrow as a friend. I have had simerler relationships where we have deveoped as friends outside of attraction and it will prorpbably wokr out when we are older. Basicaly i have only knonw her for about a month properly so i think deveoeping as friends is a good plan. Who knows? who defines convention as far as love goes. I am happy with friends and it cam after a day where i relaise di was attracted to osmeone else anyway. Me and this other person have always been friends for about a year it is really weird, but it seems that this girl (the one who only wants friendship) was but a fad. Thakns for eveyrone who helped me etc, and wish me luc with this new girl. P.s i know what people are thinking it is a enw girlevery minute isnt it. It isnt i have long admired her, but she made me rleaises how cool she really was.

Ok, an update - Meeting her 2morrow for a parrty. I sent a text to confirm when and where, and she replied saying "...I am looking forward to tommrrow, but we are going just as friends arn't we I can only assume this is a bad thing, but a general question. Does love occour in the first few minutes of meeting someone? Or can it develop over time? what i am saying is: Is this relationship totaly doomed, or over time is it possible for her to fall for me?

It's not that i dont have the courage to flirt with her, it is more i dont know how to stirke ther balance between flirting and coming on far to havily that she gets freaked out. have had experiance of coming on to heavily and it was not nice. What kind of thing should i do to flirt?

I met a girl a while ago. We were happly chatting, and making lots of eye contact, the usal stuff. Got her number, she came out with a goup of us the next week. She didnt leave my side once all evening and we stayed chatting all the time. met her randomly the week after, not knowing she was going to be there and got talking again. again we didnt stop. I had relaised at this point that i am in love with her. She give me lots of signs such as glancing at me when we are in a groupo convosation. When we depart our separate ways such as when her car drove off, she made a conscious effort to make eye contact and smile at me as she drove off. We saw each other again last night. Again we were permanlytly next to each otehr chatting. We obviously enjoy each others company lots, and we have many social events togther in the next few weeks, and she give me signs, but i dont kow how to continue I get the impression she will not make any moves with me, But i dont want to do anyhting until i am sure because i dont wanna loose her as a friend. I already impulsivly without realising flirted with ehr last night. She was cold and i went to put my arm aorund her to keep warm. She ddint give me the cold sholder like any other girls who i have experinaced unwelcom flirting with, but she did say "No it's ok". I really hope i ddint screw anyhting up with this move, although she still seems to be giving me all the same sings as before after this happened. If she only wants to be friends i am totaly cool with that, but if she wants more, i would love it to go further. Thanks for listeneing