raggedy

Dont worry about that. Sometimes guys say something but mean another. Also i have met ppl who felt this way but later changed. And it is not binding. Not sure if this help though...

Right...i should have mentioned that.

 

Yes, it is a religious thing. And it may be an emotional problem. I am glad he told me this...but i am worried too...and his reason for dating a virgin is b/c of marriage.

 

He said, "I feel I'm against the sex before marriage, I feel that if 2 people are truly in love each other, that sex can wait. "

 

So there it is...does that help?

 

i hope so...please let me know and thx for the advice to all who give it!

 

-faith

Easy answer to this... A tough woman is more intresting than a woman that agrees with everything and does everything for you. I would rather date a tough woman who would occasionaly disagree with me and actually argue about the subject.

Allright then, All ppl judge other ppl. It´s just the way things go. But did you think about that maybe this is an religious issue? Or some emotional problem he has? Maybe you should be glad that he actually told you this before this got worse. I think you should talk to him about the reason he only wants to date a virgin. And try not to judge him for his judging

Well most ppl dont really realize that appearance is only important at first sight... Later on the personality will determine the intrest. Dont worry about what other guys like, all kinda guys will come to you. Just as posted above; Variety.

You must date her! Otherwise your friendship is ruined. At least if you break up you wont get jealous anymore.

Hehe, dont worry about it a girl with braces has given me a bj and it was no problem.

Btw, i witnessed three of my friends trying suicide only one of them succeded. I could have stopped it but i didnt understand the signs! STupid book!

Confidence is the answer to almost anything... Just hang out around him and i know that he will notice you and most likely you will talk to each other, its natural.

I experianced the same thing with my ex-girlfriend, we broke up or "took a break". Maybe all you need is a vacation from each other.

Well, now at this point my life is pretty black. My girlfriend dumped me, i am neclegting my friends and i am just pretty depressed. I am thinking about killing myself but then i think of my parents and i know that they could never handle it. If it wasnt for them i would probaly not be writing this. I have started drinking and even now i have a beer beside me while i read this and i fear that one day i will go to far... Maybe this ends tomorrow, maybe in a month or perhaps i will get over this all and rise triumply. Just wanted to spill my heart. Live long.