Well, I like porn but I could only relate to #1 that you posted. Looking at porn is not bad at all. If you are in a relationship or not, there is nothing wrong with it. If your partner has a problem with it, then obviously you have to talk it over and figure something out. Not everyone actually likes pron.... which just boggles my mind because it is great Or maybe you could make your own video? Makes everything much more interesting there.