I'm new here, so let me say hi to everyone.
My problem here is that I met my boyfriend through college...he lives in North Bay and I live in Windsor. That's 8hrs apart during the summers and holidays. During the school years we have lots of fun together, we love being around one another and the sparks seem to fly all the time. But of course I might have my bad days when I snap at him or take something out on him and I may not mean too.
Anyway recently this month, we're apart for the summer, I was talking to him online and he set a bomb shell on me. He said that he's been thinking about us breaking up and that it may be for the best. He said that he was fed up with me argueing with him at times and taking things out on him. I cried and cried for two days and he just doesn't seem to care. I called him on the phone and all he seems to want is to not be in a relationship. He says he doesn't know what he wants and that he needs time to himself. I decided to give him time to himself and stop talking to him online. We still talk but now it's like we're not aloud to express how we feel for one another or talk about the relationship...instead I'm stuck asking him about the weather because I'm afraid that if I ask him about "us" he'll get upset or something. I don't know what to do. He said he's coming to see me for just a day before he makes a decision...I pretty much don't have a say in what happeneds to the relationship and it's hurting me so much. I'm trying to get him out of my head but it doesn't work. We've been together for a year and a half and both of us are our firsts so that makes things worse...plus if we are to break up we have a year of school together...meaning I'm going to be stuck seeing him almost everyday. What should I do? Am I overreacting? Please help, I'm so confused.
