It's simple: just pick up an age-appropriate popular magazine or clothing catalog. For example, if you are a 34 year-old man, try GQ, Esquire, or the the Macy's Fall Sale Catalog. Look at the advertisements. Or, watch TV. If you look like any of the men there, you are attractive. If you don't , you're not. That's it! Like it or not, fair or not, that's the world. Advertisers have spent a lot of money, time, and effort to figure all this out. Don't try to redo their research. If you are overweight, it's even easier Sorry, them's the facts! This doesn't mean you won't find a woman who likes you; it just means it will be harder for you than for other guys. When a woman thinks a guy is hot, about half will admit it. The other half will say: "He's so sensitive - really understands me, ..." Don't believe it, she just likes his 6-pack! Women don't fall in love with cash or personality. Like us guys, it's 90% looks. They'll make up the rest to sound politically correct.
