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Thanks for ur advices, cliveso and geyser92. I certainly hope that it will turn out the way that all of us expect. But so far, he hasn't taken any actions or expressed anything. I can say that he didnt mention anything now, but instead he kept asking me out and also bringing my friends which he didnt know out with him. He had seen a few of them and commented that they were pretty. Does this show that he doesn't like me and is just treating me as one of his good friend? :S

I have this good guy friend who is my ex-classmate. I was told jokingly by him that he likes me. I was confused. he told amost everything happening to him. We usually hang out as a class in the campus and when i mention any cute guys, he will be looking out for that person and commenting what i had said earlier wasn't that true afterall. We had went out together alone only once but together as a group lot of times. I don't why but i can't help having this feeling that he likes me. And he had told me once that if i am much shorter, he will ask me to be his girlfriend. For, he would talk to me whenever he had any problems(most of the time) and took my advices. What do you think? Do you think that he likes me or he's just treating me as one of his guy friends only?

I took your advices and ask him if he was serious that night. His response was "i thought u already know that im kidding?" well, that hurts me!

thanks for your dear advices. My way of responding to him was i asked him who is that girl once more and once again he answered "you" Then he said that he doesn't find the girl pretty but attractive. hm... THEN after that, i reply with an answer : "then that person cannot be me already, who is that lucky gal?" and later on, we just kept mentioning "the girl" as the one he likes.

hi! Let me get to the topic. I have this close ex-classmate where we would talk to each other online almost everyday. But recently, he told me that he likes a girl. Well, i admit that i do like him but the following to happen. When i asked who is the girl in a casual way, he told me that that girl was me. Initially i did not believe what he said and at the same time spoke nothing about how i am feeling towards him. I continued talking to him cheekly, pestering him for who is the girl. . As we chat along, he told me that that girl had someone in mind, she is not pretty but he find her attractive. As i thought that girl wasn't me, he asked for my opinion on what he should do. i told him to just go for that girl and at the same time, dress himself up. Meanwhile he also thought about how he should let the girl know about his feelings. he told me about how he is going to say and asked for my comments. he said something like this " acutally i have been asking alot because i find u cute...worried that you might be attracted. Do i stand a chance? you might have like him more but i will cherish you more." sorry.. forgot to tell ya ... i once told him that i had someone in mind but that person was actually him!!! haiz!!! I told him if there is any other plan of saying it out. the following is the improved verison "acutally i have been asking alot because i find u cute...worried that you might be attracted. Do i stand a chance? " It was better and i told him that at least it doesn't sound so aggressive. All of a sudden, i saw these words pop out "ok these words are for you"... I was shocked. I dunnoe whether it is because of the guy's ego or wat.. after what he had said, he said that he was just kidding. that chat session ended soon after. a few days later in school, i saw him in school. His dressing was better. At least he wore pants rather than his shorts to school. But i noticed the change in his attitude. it is not the usual him. he used to be loud, in the sense that he talks and jokes in the lectures loudly. Now, he is very quiet(from what i can see)and i think he doesn't really dare to look at me face to face... I'm really confused at current situation as i dunnoe whether what i felt is true. :s