Physical attractiveness - what you think you see when you look in the mirror - is so unimportant. Being attractive physically is not the same thing.
I'm female and average looking and this is my perspective:
My longest relationship (10+ years) was with a man who would objectively be called good-looking. It didn't work because I was never sexually attracted to him and though he beat me on looks, he was the one who was insecure.
I am now in a relationship with a man who has, objectively, below average looks. And yet he only has to touch my hand and I want sex. And this is not a first.
Physical attraction to someone is about the whole package. Not about looks, or personality. Just about the combination of the two of you and the way you react to each other.
