My wife of 19 years who I dearly love with all my heart informed me this week that she needed space and did not love me anymore. She said I was smothering her and was controling.
She is right, I reliaze that I have been all these things and more, I have never been physically abusive but would always make her feel guilty anytime she wanted to do anything without me.
I know I have this problem, I was married before and my first wife cheated on me and really hurt me. I feel this is why I act the way I do now wife my present wife. I don't like being this way and really won't to change.
I have made an appointment with a counsler for tomorrow to seek help.
I just hope I can get the help I need and safe my marriage and family.
thanks for listening
