My guy is jealous of everything. It's got to the point where he has told me he wants me to not have any male friends. He lived with his ex when we met (although they weren't together and not having sex) and I was subjected to her all the time- answering the phone etc when I called him. This never bothered me. But in return I just came out of a long term relationship and mentioned my ex from time to time.
He couldnt stand it and has ripped up all my letters from him and all the bits and pieces that were part of my past with him. But when I go to his place, his exes stuff is all still there- hairdryers, nail varnish, make-up. As if she still lives there. It's the whole 1-sided thing that upsets me. If ever I even hint of a situation that involved a male friend or an ex he freaks out screaming and shouting and generally making my life hell.
I Love him so much. The good times with him are the greatest and make me so incredibly happy. It's just that the jealousy is so bad now I sometimes feel suicidal. I dont think I can take mush more of it. But I couldnt be without him- I dont think! I suppose it's my fault for talking about my ex but I never do anymore and the jealousy persists. How do I deal with it?
