Spanky

I don't think there is a 'right' answer. Dating someone with children means haven't children from 2 households to get along or dating a single person without children, means them dealing with children that aren't theirs as a step parent. Each brings it's own issues. If a guys wants to judge you based on the fact that you haven't had children, then he's not worth wasting time on. You sound like you have plenty of love to give and will find the right guy / family.