a_hummingbird

Thanks for the reply. I talked to him after I found out he was talking to her. He said that the girl got a new bf, and he has a new gf - me, so it's ok to continue to be friends, talking to each other. I told him to be HONEST with me, asking him whether he wants to go back with his ex. He said he definitely does not want to go back with her b/c he doesn't want to go through the trouble again. However, I worry that they might talk to each other EVERYDAY through IM. They might also talk on the phone frequently. I really not sure what I should do. Should I leave him? I think I do love him. We two started dating after they broke up for 6 months. Maybe he needs a LONGER time to get over a 6+ yr long old relationship?

i've been dating my bf for more than 1 yr. we moved together a couple of months ago. before me, he had a gf for more than 6 yrs. he told me that they two broke up because they two were too different, e.g., the girl cares too much about money, but he doesn't. the girl moved to a different state after they broke up. they never met after that. a couple of months ago, i found that he was talking to her through IM. we fighted. he said he would not talk to her any more. but he lied. he is still talking to her through IM... i'm frustrated. is he cheating? does he still like her? do they two want to go back together? any suggestion appreciated.

i've been dating my bf for more than 1 yr. we moved together a couple of months ago. before me, he had a gf for more than 6 yrs. he told me that they two broke up because they two were too different, e.g., the girl cares too much about money, but he doesn't. the girl moved to a different state after they broke up. they never met after that. a couple of months ago, i found that he was talking to her through IM. we fighted. he said he would not talk to her any more. but he lied. he is still talking to her through IM... i'm frustrated. is he cheating? does he still like her? do they two want to go back together? any suggestion appreciated.