carelessone

Hopefully by now you have told him how you really feel. I had a friend and we were close -talked ever day and had the special connection. I didn't tell him how I felt until he found someone himself. It was too late. He told me that he had wanted more in the past but because I had never said anything... Well, he didn't want to put himself out there. Hopefully you have spoken to him and if you are good friends with him and know that you will see the fiance/wife -- Well, in my case I ended up talking to her as well. Saying that I used to have feelings blah, blah and there was a little more to our friendship but I didn't want to mess up their relationship. I was even invited to the wedding, which was shocking. I hope that you can maintain your friendship. The most painful thing for me was the fear of losing my friend. Instead I have now ended up with two.