I dated a women for almost 3 years. We had disagreements along the way just like any relationship. Things came to a head around two months back and I tried to save the realtionship during December ... flowers, cards etc. She likes to go out with her single friends and I did not mind when were together, but when things went south I believe she met another guy. Finally things ended two weeks ago with her telling me that it's over and I'm dating other men, do not contact me. I have not contacted her but it is killing me!
She wanted to move the realtionship along and I said I would but that I needed a better job to help support us. My work history has been suspect the last couple of years, causing a lot of stress. But before that I had a steady job for over 10 years. I know I put to much emphasis on my career and not on her, but I thought our love would always be there.
At what point should I contact her? I am looking for a new job, but they take time. I'm concerned that she meet someone else .. she is already dating according to her.
Any advice is appreciated.