jamierae

I appreciate all of you guys advice.........I came to the right place to find some different viewpoints. someone I don't know can sure tell me something my friends might be scared too.......which is great...I guess only I truly know how my relationship is. He is one of those guys that does cheesy things for me.......down to rememeber things i've talked about liking to giving me silly goofy trinkets and telling me he cares about me. See he's so reserved in public. I can easily embarrass him...redfaced and a cute smile......so i wonder how much of it's a "front" since his friend is so active.........and we do talk about things. Life and relationships are confusing!!! Thanks so much guys...........the people that make up this site are awesome!!

you guys are great so far..........the STD thing is what worried me with his friend.............and i actually did talk to him and tell him what I told you and we talked about it. He said that lol " I thought it would be fun for you" so maybe he was in his way trying to be sweet lol i'm such a girl and i analyze everything. You already made me feel better about cause we do talk about things and that is a great thing........I can tell him anything. I've only had 3 partners ever and i'm 28. so it;s all new to me and i'm sorta cautious.

I need advice other then my friends for this........because I need neutral advice. I'm in a long distance relationship. I really feel like I love this man. I'm pushing more for something, he goes hot and cold. The last time I went to visit him.........when i got home he'd said soemthing to the effect of .........."i wish Debbie hadn't came back to the apartment with us (he's not attracted to her) cause his friend Steve and him were gonna have a threesome with me. The thing that bothered me was that I wasn't included in the planning of this so called adventure, until a week later. Plus his friend has lots of one night stands and to me it;s actually unattractive. It's not that i'm even turned off to the idea of it....I would have a threesome especailly if the person I cared about wanted to try it. It's just how I wasn;t included bothers me??? He's very much the guys guy. He perceded to tell me him and his friend have done this before. He and I have this crazy relationship where the distance makes it hard but we have something so special we both hold on..........has anyone had this kindof thing happen to them?? Does it mean he doesn;t think i'm that special??? is it sorta degrading? would it ruin a relationship? I'm really wanting some advice or someone to just tell me how it is.......lol thanks guys!