shy2cool

Yeah, it seems that way eh... the only guys I know that don't have a chickie are either very socially inept or too shy (like me).

I'm still looking for 'the one'. *sigh*

I guess I could insert the the question into a bit of conversation - 'so why isn't your boyfriend here tonight?' etc...

sorry, i'm very new to all this. I want to make it my first new years resolution to ask a girl for her number.

I don't want to be a fool asking a taken girl for her number...

What do you write on the note though!

Train for muscular endurance... the best of both worlds. You are neither too lean, nor too bulked up.

definitely counselling. I started in 2005, and have improved a fair bit.

Thanks, but in my experience they aren't.

Outgoing girls - would you consider a shy guy?

Shy girls are great, but not so good when it comes to wowing me or in conversation. I feel that I could use an outgoing girl to help open me up as such, because I'm great company - I'm a lot better at one on one conversation vs random/groups.

Well there are yoga classes at my gym.

I don't have any problems with asian girls at all, they make great friends. I just don't picture myself being anything more with them (in general).

you're thinking too much, stop thinking and be a man.

1. ask lots of questions

2. comment about random stuff around you

3. talk about current events/affairs

PS - I'm probably just as shy as you are

Wow, that is really sad. Maybe you need professional help or something.

More specifically.... asian male, white female. In my experience as an asian male, I have found that it's much easier to get a response out of an asian female, compared to a white female. The problem is, I only find caucasian women attractive.

So... to all the caucasian ladies out there, would you respond differently to an asian male flirting with you, as opposed to a white guy?

Yeah, but I aint going to a nightclub on my own. All the ones I go to with my 'friends' are filled with people I don't really want to be around.

I don't just want a partner, I want people that like to go out too. That girl I was talking about before, doesn't want to go out to these places it seems. I've asked her twice.

I work at night, but it's great on Friday, because I finish when everybody hits the pubs/clubs (12am).

Well see, I don't have that many friends. I'm not close to any of them really, and the ones that I am closer to, don't have any girls to introduce to me.

That girl I was talking about in the other thread, well.. I'm hoping that I can get to meet her friends.

I'm out of college/university now, so that isn't the best place...