Me and my friend has known each other for years. She grew up in the same city as me and we just hit it off. The problem though is that she has been in a disfunctional relationship forever. The reason why they dont break up is the excuse is that so much time has been invested.
Though I have always been there for the help and am always the first to be asked. In the past year this has been what I have done to help her. Maybe I am getting confused between the lines of friendship or being in love.
1. Her credit was not the best so I helped her get an apartment with family.
2. I let her use my credit card to pay for things. I have always received payment the same day or same week.
3. Financial burden came accross and was asked to help. Was not forceful but I helped. I dont expect a fast pay back.
Is this is what a normal friend does? Should I have be having these strange feelings. Yes I am physically and emotionally attracted to her. Do you think anything will ever come of it.
Should I have helped? Do you think its appreciated and what her feelings are for this?
Its been on my mind but I have no one else to talk to this about. All of our friends know each other and do not know of these actions. I hope to hear some input please..
